Ah. The boy that’s in the band. Every girl loves a bad boy. Especially if they’re in a band. There’s just something about them that is so intriguing and mysterious and all you want is to know everything about them. For them to open up to you and fall for you, too. Because as we all know, it’s a rare thing when the dude in the band settles down and finds a girl worth doing that for. And me being the hopeless romantic that I am, I thought that it would be me. Sadly, it wasn’t.
I wasn’t in love. Let’s just get that straight. I was just in the beginning stages of getting to know him. Or at least I thought I was. When we met it was great, the kissing was great and I didn’t want to let go of him. I felt so on top of the world. I had just seen him perform before this and so I was hooked. I was crazy about him. But the next day he didn’t talk to me again and that was it. It just kind of stopped. I was so confused and hurt that I’m still in the process of getting over it. I don’t want to say that all band guys are the same, but I have yet to find one that’s proven me wrong. I think their lifestyle is a little bit more tricky to get around. He texted me a few days ago and asked how I was, I was shocked. But that was it. Nothing more. And he, of course, stopped replying after a while.
And that’s the sad truth of how I started falling for a band guy. It sucks but I wanted to share it with you guys who read my blog. Maybe show some girl or guy that if you’re going through something similar, you’re not alone. We all end up dating shitty men. It makes you wiser! And stronger.